I was very happy to go back home after my Christmas holidays in Italy. I had had my break and a good time with friends and family. I was ready to return to my routines and relax for a few days before starting to work again on my thesis and at UCA Farnham. As soon as I arrived home, I unpacked the luggage, did some laundry and reorganised my book shelves, reviewed files, blog posts and knitting work. Cleaning my Fiat 500 was also a priority, and hard work, as it was in miserable conditions probably due to my travelling around Surrey. I caught up with emails and did the supermarket shop as well. I found some cranberries and Seville oranges at the greengrocer’s so I experimented a new cake and made marmalade (recipes here below).
I soon went back to my studies focusing on my thesis and on two presentations I delivered at the end of January. One was at the University of Reading on the Edible woman, Reshaping the body: symbolic anorexia in The Edible Woman by Margaret Atwood, for the Gender and Sexuality Research Network’s Seminar Series; the other one was at the Centre for Myth Studies at the University of Essex on Intertextual references and myths in The Handmaid’s Tale
We managed to see the pantomime too at the New Victoria Theatre in Woking as soon as we came back from Italy. It was performed according to the best tradition with the ventriloquist, the twelve days of Christmas and the five toilet rolls tossed here and there, usually among the audience, a man
dressed in woman’s clothes (Aladdin’s mother) and Strictly Come Dancing dancer, Brendan Cole. Bobby Davro was amazing; he imitated the voices of celebrities and politicians, including President Trump, and though there were a few weird jokes, it was great fun. I love the way the audience is involved in pantos, it is pure entertainment as it should be, and according to Brendan Cole, Strictly is a panto too. At the end of the story there was a final twist when Aladdin was knocked out by the sorcerer and Jasmine took his place fighting against the villain and winning. Fantastic!
With the new year, I realised that my hair has definitely changed and my body has changed too. I don’t know how, but my hair has become curlier, almost crispy. I thought it was the shampoo or the fact that I go swimming once or twice a week. I changed shampoo and used more conditioner and hair oil but there was no change. Then I thought it was the English weather, particularly humid this year, but when I went to Rome for Christmas for two weeks my hair kept the same shape, only the
hairdresser managed to straighten it. My hair has never been like spaghetti but it was far straighter just a year ago, and I have photos to prove it. Maybe it is that it became thinner with aging. It does not look so bad after all and it fits my face that has become larger; it seems as if I got a perm.
My body has changed too. I get tired more easily and if I want to keep active, I have to balance my activities. Therefore, I do my ‘intellectual work’ in the morning (PhD work and writing) or early afternoon leaving house chores, crafty stuff, knitting and crochet for the late afternoon and evening. Reading, creative writing and reviewing are my happy breaks. My legs and arms are still thin but my waistline has become suddenly larger and though I exercise it doesn’t seem to go back to how it used to be. Finally, my back aches and I have to rest or do some exercises the physiotherapist recommended to ease it. It is not a nightmare but I need to adapt my lifestyle to my new conditions.
I take breaks from time to time from my studies to recharge my brain and also to go back to my thesis with fresh eyes. Starting a new creative project always helps me. Bags, scarves, a new Halloween dress for my daughter Valentina, or granny squares, give me a relaxing interval and fuel my creative side. I work as well as an academic mentor at UCA Farnham, that is, I support students in their research and in delivering their work on time. It is a rewarding job that gives me money and also keeps me in contact with the academic world and with university students.
Lately, I started to draw and paint again attending Chobham art group and Woking Art Society’s meetings and workshops. I have worked with all kinds of media in the past since I was a teenager, from tempera to oil, acrylics, watercolours and mixed media. Since I came to England, I especially developed watercolours and mixed media, which I love, using intriguing new products and techniques. It is a rewarding and relaxing activity that also gives me the opportunity to meet people that share my same interests, but it is a commitment as well that needs focus and dedication on a certain project you decide to carry out. For me at the moment it is mainly drawing and painting leaves and flowers though in the past I also painted shells, stones, still life and landscapes. There will be opportunities for exhibitions in Woking and in Surrey area in spring and summer and I hope I will have enough good pieces to display.
In line with my artwork, I am also planning to take part in art and craft fairs to fund my summer journey to Canada and my son’s fundraising for VSO (Voluntary Service Overseas). He will sell his origami and artwork and I will sell my jewellery, handmade clothes and bags, scarves, knitting and crochet stuff, as well as my artwork. Here are the fairs I am going to attend:
Friday 28th February: Kenley Market, Kenley Memorial Hall, Kenley CR8 5AB, from 8 until 12.
Friday 20th March: Kenley Market, Kenley Memorial Hall, Kenley CR8 5AB, from 8 until 12.
Saturday 25th April: Guildford Guildhall, Guildford GU1 3AA, from 10 until 5.
Saturday 2nd May: Cranleigh Village Hall, Cranleigh GU68AF, from 10 until 4.
At half term we celebrated my husband and my daughter Valentina’s birthdays. We travelled north where Vale lives, met my eldest son and daughter in law in Leeds and had a cosy party with Valentina in Fullerton. It was great fun. We had prepared a Futurama theme party with pictures of the purple haired Leela and clothes for Vale with Leela printed on. She loved it. She showed off all the clothes and stuck Leela’s pictures on walls and windows. She also drew Lela again and again on a roll of paper and watched Futurama videos. The social services told us they will move Vale south at the end of March in the Redhill area as she is an adult now (she is twenty) and cannot stay in Fullerton any longer. We are happy about the move as she will be nearer to us, about an hour drive, so we can see her more often and spend more time with her.
In Leeds we went to a new pizzeria, Livin’Italy (https://livinitaly.com/ ), an exciting place. We had intriguing cocktails, such as Italian Stallion, Sbagliato, Sardinian Millionaire and Eager Porno Star Martini, and excellent huge pizzas (20”) we shared, and finally delicious artisanal gelato (ice cream). A cool place with superlative food.
The weather has been very windy and rainy this year but daffodils and crocuses are poking out as ever and some trees have white and pink flowers defying the gale. The risk of coronavirus lingers which seems worrying (we have planned a trip to Tokyo to see my daughter’s MA graduation at Bunka Gakuen University) but let’s hope that all will end well and spring will come at last with mild sunshine and new treats for this challenging year.
And here are the recipes:
You need: 250 g of white flour, 100 g of sugar, 2 tbsp. of cranberry sauce, 80 g of melted butter, 2 tsp of baking powder, 2 eggs, 50 g of dark chocolate chips; to decorate: cranberry sauce and 100 g of melted dark chocolate.
To prepare the cranberry sauce you need to boil the cranberries with some water, Demerara sugar and a stick of cinnamon. For the cake, beat the eggs and the sugar, add all the other ingredients and bake for half and hour-45 minutes at 180°C. When it cools, melt the dark chocolate in the microwave and pour it on top, then add one or two tbsp. of cranberry sauce.
You need: 1 ½ kilo of Seville oranges, 1 kilo of sugar.
Boil the oranges for one hour. Keep half of the water. Peel and scoop the pulp of the orange removing the pith and pips. Chop half of the peels then simmer the pulp, peels and water for 1-2 hours or until it is ready.